Good morning again friends, we've got hot coffee, and chocolate cake for breakfast (it is April fools day after all). Yesterday's image was a painting of the temple of Zeus and the great statue. Today's image is what is left of the real temple and statue of Zeus.
Destroying something can be really good or bad, and even neither if you're really prone to over thinking things. Breaking down or destroying a wall between you -- learning to cope better with a past dysfunction can be wonderful. A friend asked, if mouse has ever tried to press the self-destruct on her relationship with Daddy? Sometimes, mouse has tried to stop things of felt it was too hard and not worth the effort or something like that. As difficult as dealing with her complicated past was, it was more difficult to reopen the wounds to allow them to heal properly. Many times Daddy, after allowing mouse to drift a little, has asked her point blank -- if she really wanted to continue. He always couched that with great assurances that his love for mouse wouldn't change, but needed to know if we were on the same page (or sometimes even reading the same book).
Ultimately the choice was on mouse did she really want this for herself or did she evasion something different? Did she want his control or was she just giving lip service to the "ideal" or notion of his athority? In other words, did she really believe that she could do this? It's taken time for her to realize that not only she can, but actually thrives in this.