tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post1574595886165136902..comments2024-02-09T22:25:09.763-08:00Comments on The Power Exchange: The Sweetest hmm Pet in the Worldmousehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17837530120535693314noreply@blogger.comBlogger26125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-6942026034492164302012-06-01T14:20:47.844-07:002012-06-01T14:20:47.844-07:00Oh heather you're most welcome!!Oh heather you're most welcome!!mousehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17837530120535693314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-10259762204360257782012-06-01T14:18:25.864-07:002012-06-01T14:18:25.864-07:00It is! Good Luck.
Hugs,
mIt is! Good Luck.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />mmousehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17837530120535693314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-15848376879907137562012-05-31T07:49:12.893-07:002012-05-31T07:49:12.893-07:00I can understand. I'm glad you have someone li...I can understand. I'm glad you have someone like Omega to make your life happy. :-)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-55439088409558083182012-05-31T04:38:47.253-07:002012-05-31T04:38:47.253-07:00Thank you for sharing.
hugs,
heather1Thank you for sharing.<br /><br />hugs,<br />heather1Heather1https://www.blogger.com/profile/02662504009396778896noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-34833164427851832002012-05-30T22:48:06.986-07:002012-05-30T22:48:06.986-07:00I think subjugation is scary. But I'm addicte...I think subjugation is scary. But I'm addicted to the idea of it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-66805098909741252772012-05-30T22:45:42.149-07:002012-05-30T22:45:42.149-07:00Thank you mouse,
Sometimes I think it would be so...Thank you mouse,<br /><br />Sometimes I think it would be so much easier to just allow the Dom to control our bodies. But making us open our minds, our hearts, our soul...to be laid bare. That kind of submission is hard. I struggle the most with this.<br /><br />Thank you for a beautifully written post.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-50978665829270148932012-05-30T21:43:18.613-07:002012-05-30T21:43:18.613-07:00Thank you!!Thank you!!mousehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17837530120535693314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-20599725242587102382012-05-30T21:42:46.892-07:002012-05-30T21:42:46.892-07:00Most times in the lifestyle the bottom/sub/slave o...Most times in the lifestyle the bottom/sub/slave offers herself to the Dom. This is called frequently as the gift of submission. The offer is then accepted or rejected. <br /><br />By asking for their gift of dominance, you're asking for their control over you. <br /><br />Instead of the traditional line of thinking where the sub holds the gift over the Dom's head. <br /><br />In the end it doesn't matter....so long as you're committed to each other. <br /><br />Hope that helped <br /><br />mmousehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17837530120535693314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-40938101926080034352012-05-30T20:38:45.949-07:002012-05-30T20:38:45.949-07:00I guess that's the part that I get hung up on....I guess that's the part that I get hung up on. In the act of giving the gift of submission am I also begging for his dominance? If I'm honest with myself I'm not sure. And asking him to give me something doesn't feel right either. But I've asked him for many things in hindsight. <br />It's hard when I'm a control freak about some things and then others not at all. Ugh. It's a lot to think about.monkey girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04234810881929268484noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-1632578459220333732012-05-30T20:01:27.132-07:002012-05-30T20:01:27.132-07:00Love.Love.Kitty the Submissive Wifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00185859722963938064noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-74020401569479276752012-05-30T17:45:23.696-07:002012-05-30T17:45:23.696-07:00Oh tori!!
Thanks for your comments! And yes, to ...Oh tori!!<br /><br />Thanks for your comments! And yes, to answer your question yes it's gotten sooo much easier to talk about these things. It's like that worrying part of mouse's head was switched off. It's feeling liberated and empowered to lose that fear. He's shown that he can handle anything mouse tells him...he might not like it. It might even hurt him to hear the gory details mouse will share, but he knows it helps us both. It helps mouse heal, it helps him to better understand mouse's triggers....why she reacts the way she does....the truth is, with her defenses down completely, she reveals much more to him than would be possible other wise. <br /><br />Hugs,<br />mousemousehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17837530120535693314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-40785357694025670602012-05-30T17:33:16.152-07:002012-05-30T17:33:16.152-07:00squirrel,
Honestly, mouse is grateful to Daddy to...squirrel,<br /><br />Honestly, mouse is grateful to Daddy to, for allowing mouse to embrace these thoughts. <br /><br />Hugs,<br />mousemousehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17837530120535693314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-81664725312518624462012-05-30T17:28:19.619-07:002012-05-30T17:28:19.619-07:00blue,
Thanks for the comment and yes, it's tr...blue,<br /><br />Thanks for the comment and yes, it's true, they both are similar. Tho, Daddy might argue the difference is the intent of the one with the power. <br /><br />Hugs,<br />mousemousehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17837530120535693314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-63318795126488209622012-05-30T17:26:19.124-07:002012-05-30T17:26:19.124-07:00Thanks.Thanks.mousehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17837530120535693314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-49314673768851827452012-05-30T17:25:14.546-07:002012-05-30T17:25:14.546-07:00Sir,
You do know that song was written for Syd? ...Sir,<br /><br />You do know that song was written for Syd? ;-). <br /><br />Always fond of the line, "Come on, you miner of truth and delusion and shine!"<br /><br />Hugs,<br />mousemousehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17837530120535693314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-408731031857913472012-05-30T17:20:30.660-07:002012-05-30T17:20:30.660-07:00mg,
Honestly mouse doesn't see them as the sa...mg,<br /><br />Honestly mouse doesn't see them as the same. Technically when you give someone a gift, you cannot control how it's used.....yet that seems to be the crux of the submission is a gift argument. They can control how it's used and taken back for whatever reason strikes them. Asking or begging for their control seems to force capitulation on our part. We have to repeatedly surrender and keep in mind this is exactly what we asked for. <br /><br />Hugs,<br />mousemousehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17837530120535693314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-52326137534254210502012-05-30T17:13:11.397-07:002012-05-30T17:13:11.397-07:00Thank you!!!Thank you!!!mousehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17837530120535693314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-91602059409631367002012-05-30T17:12:48.052-07:002012-05-30T17:12:48.052-07:00Thanks c!
Everyone has something that really tu...Thanks c! <br /><br />Everyone has something that really turns them on. For some it's being told what to do, others it's service or being used as an object, for mouse it's about knowing he's in control and feeling in a healthy way, powerless to do anything other than submit to his authority. <br /><br />It feels like such a slippery slope, but it places mouse into such a wonderful headspace! <br /><br />Hugs,<br />mousemousehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17837530120535693314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-51957665302522897932012-05-30T13:51:04.998-07:002012-05-30T13:51:04.998-07:00ok i admit i had to google subjugation to get the ...ok i admit i had to google subjugation to get the actual definition of what it meant lol<br /><br /><br />What struck out at me the most was your explanation of feeling safe when your contained and controlled and how you have in the past needed the pain to feel that control...that hit home for me on a personal level.<br /><br />I have had a tendency to want and need s/m to make me feel submissive and the bossman picked up on this and its been an ongoing battle to put a stop to it, not that im saying im not submissive when not engaging in s/m but rather i felt that it wasnt enough i needed that rush of pain and humiliation to make me 'feel' it.<br /><br />Its an ongoing struggle. <br /><br />I think your blog is a very good example of why communication is so very important between dominant and submissive, this whole ttwd is more than being physical, you have to lay yourself bare to each other i think not just the sub to the dom. The bossman is a big believer in getting in the slaves head much to my horror as im not the biggest fan of opening up! initially fear i think of letting go completley and giving him everything not just in a physical sense but emotionally. <br /><br />But i do value the importance of those heavy discussions even if i do at times (ok a lot) fight against it, the little bit more each time that is given up is that bit more of being 'free'.<br /><br /><br />Has it gotten easier over time to have these discussions with Omega? or do you still find it in some ways difficult.<br /><br />tori<br />xxtorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-35838435709467834412012-05-30T12:24:16.991-07:002012-05-30T12:24:16.991-07:00This is beautiful, mouse. In my previous D/s rela...This is beautiful, mouse. In my previous D/s relationships, although not as intense as Yours and Alpha's, I got off on being 'forced' into submission through bondage, punishment, pain, etc. And although I still love that feeling, for the first time, I am slowly coming to realize I can be fulfilled by devotion, truly giving all of myself, wanting to serve Wolf and do what he desires because I want to, instead of being 'forced' to do it. I'm not making a whole lot of sense explaining this :-) because it's so new to me and I still need to sort it out in my head. But it is empowering, freeing, and intoxicating. Thank you for sharing. I'm so glad you found Daddy! <br /><br />love, squirrelsquirrelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00031730207203305500noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-38007376103110374462012-05-30T12:14:48.940-07:002012-05-30T12:14:48.940-07:00I've never thought of the similarities and dif...I've never thought of the similarities and differences between subjugation and submission. Thank you,<br />blueshadesofbluehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01220767643608836221noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-69816334465176011662012-05-30T09:47:39.041-07:002012-05-30T09:47:39.041-07:00Freedom comes in two ways, Freedom to, and Freedom...Freedom comes in two ways, Freedom to, and Freedom from. Neither should be discounted.<br /><br />KAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-77330642850450238152012-05-30T09:04:39.175-07:002012-05-30T09:04:39.175-07:00I think a song quote is approp. - "Shine on Y...I think a song quote is approp. - "Shine on You Crazy Diamond!"Michael Samadhihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10485861725982649290noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-76308931742951364822012-05-30T08:28:08.159-07:002012-05-30T08:28:08.159-07:00beautifully explained and hits me at a core level....beautifully explained and hits me at a core level. I've often wondered that the gift of submission and the act of begging for dominance is the same, or similar. gives me much to think about. Even good things come out of bad experiences. Funny I was just thinking/posting about that yesterday. Some of the best things I've ever experienced eventually ended badly or started from an equally bad place. I wonder why that is. Going to have to give that more thought. <br />thank you for writing it so well,<br />mgmonkey girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04234810881929268484noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-62213574091421563162012-05-30T08:05:04.588-07:002012-05-30T08:05:04.588-07:00This is very powerful. Thank you. jadeThis is very powerful. Thank you. jadeAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com