tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post4294680929544304235..comments2024-02-09T22:25:09.763-08:00Comments on The Power Exchange: I'm tired of cryingmousehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17837530120535693314noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-1112826776981619652013-04-30T16:31:15.210-07:002013-04-30T16:31:15.210-07:00mouse, I am aware I am an outsider looking in. Wit...mouse, I am aware I am an outsider looking in. With that said though I wish to say reading this entry only shows just how far you and Omega have come and all that you two have endured to survive both as individuals and as a couple. Relationships require work and dedication, especially in the hardest and most challenging of times. We make mistakes, we error and if we are fortunate we find the courage to take responsibility and provide forgiveness. <br /><br />Being together does not mean you never fail each other or yourself, it means you find the strength to tolerate, to accept and to embrace rather than pull away. <br /><br />Thank you for sharing such raw intimacy.<br /><br />~cockdollgoodgirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10215422809037280385noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-39565384059018311622009-12-13T10:53:21.079-08:002009-12-13T10:53:21.079-08:00I'm playing catch-up on my reading. I've ...I'm playing catch-up on my reading. I've made attempts the past few days only to get dragged into work related issues ate up all my time. First off, It's not your fault mouse. You are not the one with the issue, however you are wrapped up in the grief of it all because your relationship appears to have suffered a major bump. I don't know the whole story, but I am trying to gather the bits and pieces you left in your posts. I'm sorry you are hurting! I know how difficult it can be when a trust is broken. Please know that you are in my thoughts! I sincerely hope and pray that things will heal themselves and that all will be well in your life.<br /><br />Love,<br />kittenAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-67240536972216385072009-12-12T06:49:06.931-08:002009-12-12T06:49:06.931-08:00Nothing to say that hasn't already been said. ...Nothing to say that hasn't already been said. Thinking of you, and Omega, and sending prayers and positive thoughts your way.schiavahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10954158336340577824noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-79501060559055405472009-12-12T05:27:16.391-08:002009-12-12T05:27:16.391-08:00Not, NOT, NOT your fault, miz mouse!
Nor are you b...Not, NOT, <b>NOT</b> your fault, miz mouse!<br />Nor are you broken. You were damaged and you're not quite done patching yourself up, yes. But no one who reads your blog doubts how incredibly strong you are. We've all watched you pull yourself together and move forward. YOU, mouse. Omega helped you, yes, but <i>you</i> did all the work. Broken things can't do that.<br /><br />Now it's his turn. And unfortunately, this leaves you in the totally sucky position of not knowing where things are going. But you didn't create the situation so don't go taking any blame for it.<br /><br />You've each got a tough row to hoe. All you can do is to concentrate on yours and leave his to him, and hope you end up in the same place at the end. And know we're behind you all the way.Jzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00301793291285112859noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-36018792023021951282009-12-12T05:24:27.392-08:002009-12-12T05:24:27.392-08:00I think greengirl said it well. You may bear the c...I think greengirl said it well. You may bear the consequences but don't blame yourself. <br /><br />I wish I could offer good advice here but I really don't know anything about your situation, or rather his situation. And even if I did, the decisions, the feelings would all need to come from the two of you. <br /><br />I do wish you luck though. And streangth and courage and love.<br /><br />sinsinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00082648132476803815noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-44593285141993977282009-12-11T23:24:02.699-08:002009-12-11T23:24:02.699-08:00I am sorry you are going through this, but it is n...I am sorry you are going through this, but it is not YOUR fault. You may have to deal with the consequences of his actions, but you are not responsible for them. You are responsible only for your own choices. This has not happened because of the way you are, this has happenend because of the way he is.<br />You are not broken. Please, stop looking at yourself as if you are inadequate in some way. You are not. You have far greater strength and insight than you give yourself credit for. You do have a gut feeling on what is right and good for you, please start listening to it! JuliaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-4771144908112375852009-12-11T18:52:44.112-08:002009-12-11T18:52:44.112-08:00IT'S NOT YOUIT'S NOT YOUAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-86455456267836960372009-12-11T15:45:23.692-08:002009-12-11T15:45:23.692-08:00*hugs*
It's not your fault that he went to so...*hugs*<br /><br />It's not your fault that he went to someone else at all. Sex addiction isn't about the sex remember? Ummm... I have a few more things to say, but I think I'll do it privately.<br /><br />Just hang in there!<br /><br />spiritedturiyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04611694817150215324noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-68391353825251552282009-12-11T14:13:27.380-08:002009-12-11T14:13:27.380-08:00STOP blaming yourself. It has taken me many years...STOP blaming yourself. It has taken me many years to understand the TRUTH of that; we are NOT to blame when they fuck up, plain and simple. We did NOT fail. We did NOT screw up. It was THEIR screw up, NOT ours. If there were issues, then they should have been brought up and addressed; that is what balanced, healthy adults do.<br /><br />I feel for you mouse, but do not turn it around and start shouldering what is HIS issue.selkiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01713419374194169822noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-64584648577379405832009-12-11T11:36:57.844-08:002009-12-11T11:36:57.844-08:00You may bear the consequences, but not the blame. ...You may bear the consequences, but not the blame. He is the one responsible for making every single choice he makes.greengirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06897315716330033528noreply@blogger.com