tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post4334734309852683174..comments2024-02-09T22:25:09.763-08:00Comments on The Power Exchange: Smoke and mirrorsmousehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17837530120535693314noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-76054426044250599582014-11-18T21:54:04.324-08:002014-11-18T21:54:04.324-08:00Please continue to read and comment. You're t...Please continue to read and comment. You're taking mouse on a long walk down memory lane. <br /><br />You and your Master will likely find your own way on this path. <br /><br />Hugs,<br />mousemousehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17837530120535693314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-77775707418550206992014-11-18T19:54:41.538-08:002014-11-18T19:54:41.538-08:00I feel the same way mouse. I feel that I was this ...I feel the same way mouse. I feel that I was this way since birth. Looking back at all relationships I just wanted a Master. <br />Going back to your post about trust and the reading this again it goes hand and hand. <br />I don't know how I feel while reading this. It makes me feel completed because this is what I've been missing in my life but I'm wondering if I can bring my Master and I to this point.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03667165137440835901noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-90416135288516767262010-03-02T20:26:23.114-08:002010-03-02T20:26:23.114-08:00Green Girl,
I went ahead and published your comme...Green Girl,<br /><br />I went ahead and published your comment, however if it causes you any ill feelings please contact me right away and I shall remove it. <br /><br />The reason I did publish is I believe there are many like you who are confused by all the terminology within the realm of "that thing we do." The reality is there is no right or wrong way of doing things -- to that end it is smoke and mirrors. You will find your footing, as will your husband. Together you will both learn and grow in your relationship. <br /><br />This will happen, understand, not because of what you read or do not read but because all relationships evolve over time. Your husband might become more assertive as he becomes more comfortable in his role. It is a natural progression or at least should be. The most important bit I could ever offer anyone new to this lifestyle, is to continue talking, expressing your views, and even your fantasies with each other. <br /><br />Often I found the things that scare people are the very thing they most crave. <br /><br />Be well,<br />OmegaOmegahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17944365262341881869noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-14402198687561401082010-03-02T19:11:26.764-08:002010-03-02T19:11:26.764-08:00Mouse,
You don't need to publish this - but I ...Mouse,<br />You don't need to publish this - but I wanted to say it to you. I so much appreciate that you write these kinds of things. What you describe here, I find frightening, or I would for myself. I recognize echos of some of the feelings you describe, and even on a much smaller scale, they often frighten me. I guess it's just good to hear that these can be positive feelings.<br /><br />I am somewhat in the same boat as D's s - neither my husband nor I has any experince with any of this, so there is really very little chance of a connection, or control or, I'm not even sure what to call it, like you describe here. <br /><br />It's a part of why I really don't know what to call what we have. We do take a lot of ideas from this general realm. A lot of the changes we have made have had interesting and unexpected impacts on each of us, and have led to each of us learning and changing more. But I really don't know what it is in the end; although I think that, in the end, it doesn't change anything to call it one thing or another. <br />Thank you.greengirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06897315716330033528noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-30943754482177397342010-03-02T14:28:19.190-08:002010-03-02T14:28:19.190-08:00Wow... this is something that's been getting t...Wow... this is something that's been getting to me a lot... is it all just an illusion? Just the other night I was asking myself if I was just fooling myself into believing it was all real.<br /><br />I don't know... I have experienced the clinginess, though, and it sometimes scares me. I guess it's those moments when I feel like I'm getting lost in it. Especially when, like you experienced, you say and do things you just don't have any memory of. It can be quite disconcerting.<br /><br />When the focus is on our Masters, though, it can certainly bring on those slave-like feelings. It's truly incredible... scary at times, but incredible. I'm glad you had such a deep and meaningful experience this last weekend.<br /><br />*hugs*<br /><br />spiritedturiyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04611694817150215324noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-74665510154750619602010-03-02T08:56:22.838-08:002010-03-02T08:56:22.838-08:00D's s,
Yes, I have a few decades of experien...D's s, <br /><br />Yes, I have a few decades of experience and have had the pleasure of many women during that time. <br /><br />mouse is truly my forever slave, none compare or come close to what she brings to me.<br /><br />Be well,<br />OmegaOmegahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17944365262341881869noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-70451818248798570062010-03-02T08:39:13.789-08:002010-03-02T08:39:13.789-08:00i really understood this post - i have never felt ...i really understood this post - i have never felt quite like you seem to and certainly not for as long but i have to say that i hope i will one day (simply because it shows how into your mindspace you are). Can't think of anything else to write now but needed to respond in some way.<br /><br />nixienixiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17630996389284013750noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-47691310133428044292010-03-02T08:03:19.452-08:002010-03-02T08:03:19.452-08:00Hello, i'm quite new to the blogging thing so ...Hello, i'm quite new to the blogging thing so hope you don't mind me writing.<br /><br />Wow this is a great post! These effects fascinate me as we're so knew to this. Am i right in thinking O has prior bdsm experience too? It scares me with us that D wouldn't know how to handle this or how to interpret that kind of begging for more you describe- i think this is probably holding me back atm but your descriptions have really made me think.<br />Thanks!<br />sD's shttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09296899118092594320noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-20721973432057365332010-03-01T21:00:40.149-08:002010-03-01T21:00:40.149-08:00darling mouse,
You do please me. Much of BDSM is...darling mouse,<br /><br />You do please me. Much of BDSM is mental, perhaps not akin to the smoke and mirrors but it is very emotional. In all that belies the illusion which most onlookers have. <br /><br />If you feel more as a slave feels (from a mental stance), then it serves its purpose. I do not mind being awakened by what you perceive as "neediness," it is to be expected.<br /><br />OmegaOmegahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17944365262341881869noreply@blogger.com