tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post7663942983850054056..comments2024-02-09T22:25:09.763-08:00Comments on The Power Exchange: Closed My Eyes to Seemousehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17837530120535693314noreply@blogger.comBlogger24125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-80176828022687452272013-05-30T21:30:39.514-07:002013-05-30T21:30:39.514-07:00Welcome Annie!
You're right some do just ta...Welcome Annie! <br /><br />You're right some do just take the scenic route. It takes a lot of communication, honesty and thick skinned. <br /><br />The reason mouse adds the thick skin -- it's just easy to feel criticized or picked on. Maybe that's also what impedes sexual connection. <br /><br />Hugs,<br />mousemousehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17837530120535693314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-86225247400778303152013-05-28T21:46:34.072-07:002013-05-28T21:46:34.072-07:00My Sig O. and I didn't sleep together until we...My Sig O. and I didn't sleep together until we were married. We thought we'd discussed it, but the truth is, it's not something that two newbies can really figure out solely based on conversation. I had no idea how important that element of the relationship would be. Now, several years into it, we're facing the possibility that we're just not compatible in that way. We're compatible in every other way-- and click amazingly well-- but that spark just isn't and hasn't really been there. It's not really a sad thing-- but it is an eye opening one. It's so good to hear about people connecting on that level, both already in relationships or who find them later on. It's comforting-- everything happens for a reason and we all end up where we're supposed to be... some of us just take the scenic route to get there. :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07849262052558299152noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-26243023587615069172013-05-28T09:26:28.176-07:002013-05-28T09:26:28.176-07:00<3 ya H!!<3 ya H!!mousehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17837530120535693314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-50679813469738424372013-05-28T09:25:57.317-07:002013-05-28T09:25:57.317-07:00Yes...non-sexual touching...connecting are so impo...Yes...non-sexual touching...connecting are so important too. <br /><br />Hugs,<br />mousemousehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17837530120535693314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-60469749225178955252013-05-28T09:24:43.951-07:002013-05-28T09:24:43.951-07:00June!! Yes! Exactly! June!! Yes! Exactly! mousehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17837530120535693314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-35632050675318091392013-05-28T09:24:05.157-07:002013-05-28T09:24:05.157-07:00Oh jade, you made mouse blush!
Xxoo.
Hugs,
mo...Oh jade, you made mouse blush! <br /><br />Xxoo. <br /><br />Hugs,<br />mousemousehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17837530120535693314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-33210553601961228622013-05-28T09:22:40.586-07:002013-05-28T09:22:40.586-07:00LK,
This lifestyle (gosh how mouse hates that term...LK,<br />This lifestyle (gosh how mouse hates that term) or ttwd, does foster much trust and intimacy. It's really wonderful to feel that deep connection. <br />Hugs,<br />mousemousehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17837530120535693314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-64328654423868811362013-05-28T09:20:36.958-07:002013-05-28T09:20:36.958-07:00Doesn't it just floor you when you hear that? ...Doesn't it just floor you when you hear that? <br /><br />Hugs,<br />mousemousehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17837530120535693314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-6028922762571042702013-05-28T09:19:43.784-07:002013-05-28T09:19:43.784-07:00That is a huge difference! Being pleasing isn'...That is a huge difference! Being pleasing isn't a duty...it's a pleasure! Comparability and desire to change, to set aside fear or arrogance to learn are wonderful qualities. <br /><br />Hugs,<br />mousemousehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17837530120535693314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-9709315050936437972013-05-28T09:15:28.765-07:002013-05-28T09:15:28.765-07:00Emi,
Yes totally get it. Alpha wasn't big on...Emi,<br /><br />Yes totally get it. Alpha wasn't big on female pleasure at all (quite the opposite) and Daddy definitely wants mouse to enjoy making love. He was very patient. <br /><br />It's a wonderful thing. <br /><br />Hugs,<br />mousemousehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17837530120535693314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-87571731019838994452013-05-28T09:12:51.192-07:002013-05-28T09:12:51.192-07:00Sarah -- yes it's a scary fact, many women are...Sarah -- yes it's a scary fact, many women are taught to ignore their urges (sometimes men too). It is completely a disservice to do that and still it's something that mouse can kinda relate to. Really had no clue that girls could masturbate until she was 20 or so. Sad huh? It wasn't discussed at all and back then mouse never thought much about it. Lol<br /><br />Hugs,<br />mouse mousehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17837530120535693314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-61504262214934637552013-05-28T09:06:32.072-07:002013-05-28T09:06:32.072-07:00Oh that would be bliss. :)Oh that would be bliss. :)mousehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17837530120535693314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-5764010899132921602013-05-28T09:05:26.544-07:002013-05-28T09:05:26.544-07:00It's funny because a few years ago, mouse woul...It's funny because a few years ago, mouse would have said the same thing as you tori! <br /><br />But, have to admit, Babygirl and other distractions,have certainly forced us both to embrace the intimacy of everyday sex. Lol. Gosh that sounds terrible, like it's dull or boring. Because its not really. <br /><br />But ya...when we can play....oh ya...it feels more intimate maybe because of vulnerability...<br /><br />Hugs,<br />mousemousehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17837530120535693314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-7981864230868009592013-05-27T06:49:18.884-07:002013-05-27T06:49:18.884-07:00mouse is indeed very blessed.
mouse is indeed very blessed.<br /><br />Hedonehttp://pleasure-principle-hedone.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-57644065213461001312013-05-22T16:56:53.155-07:002013-05-22T16:56:53.155-07:00Hmmm Two times a day - I'm jealous :) In my ...Hmmm Two times a day - I'm jealous :) In my last relationship, I would tell my ex not to f**ken touch me - I had zero interest in having sex with him. It's so different with C, I crave his touch (any touch, it doesn't have to be sexual)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-77752053035757398722013-05-20T19:53:21.210-07:002013-05-20T19:53:21.210-07:00There is nothing sweeter than that feeling of love...There is nothing sweeter than that feeling of love that is beyond any words of description, and so much more intense than we have ever felt in our lives. I do this often, too, mouse, sometimes just with my arms wrapped around his neck, my nose pressed under his jaw, and the warm scent of him filling my nose, I weep with the knowledge that I have been blessed with so much more than I deserve, and a love greater than I could ever conceive existed for me. <br /><br />(((hugs)))Junehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03940211128244967387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-27727421946334636702013-05-20T14:37:07.014-07:002013-05-20T14:37:07.014-07:00mouse,
i think your writing is so refreshingly hon...mouse,<br />i think your writing is so refreshingly honest. Plus, i love that you always have titles that make me want to applaud your craft as a writer. i can't trim my thoughts down enough to capture more than a word or phrase in my titles and they never seem right. Your titles are sometimes swoon worthy. :)<br /><br />i have...an inability to "make love." i feel nothing about that. It is just a fact. i have intimacy in other ways but you remind me to make room in my mind to feel happy for people who enjoy slow love making. <br /><br />hugs,<br />jade<br /><br />http://jadescastle.wordpress.comAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-57669898930642659352013-05-20T14:15:45.113-07:002013-05-20T14:15:45.113-07:00I am so very new to TTWD and had very limited expe...I am so very new to TTWD and had very limited experience. But I have had lots of experience in the vanilla world! <br />I have never had a relationship in the vanilla world, where sex was discussed openly and honestly. When I was young I would be too embarrassed to even think about asking for something I wanted. For years I didn't particularly even like sex. <br />Last year I ended a long term relationship. It was very dysfunctional & co- dependant. For the last couple of years I felt like an it. I had absolutely no sexual desire at all! I couldn't care less if I had ever had sex again! I guess this is what happens when you lose all respect for your partner?!?<br />In January along came my Dom! Well, my sex drive came back with a vengece!!! All because he talked to me ... Stimulated my mind as well as my libido! I went from a dried up old it to a ducking nympho (pardon my potty mouth).<br />So yeah I think that the nature of the TTWD, keeps both partners attuned to each other & thus more intimate.geekie kittiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12922573531124805279noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-36833482666634534292013-05-20T14:11:43.619-07:002013-05-20T14:11:43.619-07:00You are really blessed mouse. And, I agree with yo...You are really blessed mouse. And, I agree with you. Unfortunately, I also know people who no longer want that intimate connection. <br /><br />For me, it is important and I want to continually bring something new to our sex lives.<br /><br />Hug,<br />joey<br /><br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-75260934781212916492013-05-20T13:35:58.554-07:002013-05-20T13:35:58.554-07:00For many years during our marriage things were ver...For many years during our marriage things were very different, I would even say not right, in many areas including sex. It was something I shied away from and many times how I saw it could be described as a duty or something just for procreation. <br /><br />By the time things were changing in our relationship and we were exploring sex differently is when we found that there were some physical/hormonal problems with Sir that made for many uncomfortable moments. It frustrated us both. I realized and began to understand just how much sexual intimacy matters in a relationship and the deep emotional bonding it creates and I really felt that the problems that had arisen had to be a bad joke of some kind. <br /><br />After a great amount of research and learning, changes were made that helped the physical problems subside and things get better; and the more we incorporate a D/s or M/s dynamic into our relationship things have gotten even more so. Having gone through everything we have I need to feel Sir more now than ever. Even if it were only for his pleasure it no longer ever feels like a duty; I need and desire to please him sexually just as in every other way. I am thankful for how our lives have changed over the past two years, and I don’t want to ever take any part of our relationship for granted again. <br />Jacquiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03977010794301234785noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-59434458474023444812013-05-20T13:17:27.096-07:002013-05-20T13:17:27.096-07:00I couldn't imagine anything replacing my "...I couldn't imagine anything replacing my "H" - and no, no vibrator in the world is better then his weight and fullness inside me.<br />I am so thankful that I enjoy sex, and enjoy it often :) I have MANY friends, even a sister who wants nothing to do with it and sees it as a chore. I have often felt for them, if they only knew what it could DO for their marriage by having a healthy sex life. "H" has friend too who "talk" at work, about wives who are evasive and how long it's been since they've had sex - I don't ever want that to be MY "H" talking like that.<br /><br />"H" is actually my second Husband, I was married very young and was left only a year after (and with a baby). I didn't care for sex with my first husband and never quite "got it" until I met my "H".<br /><br />He was wonderful with me and brought back the sexual appetite I once had before.<br /><br />I can't imagine our lives without and every time we are with one another I think to myself just how lucky I am!<br /><br />Oh I'm sorry to make such a long post! it's nap time here and I've gotten my laptop back just this morning.<br /><br />Take care mouse and Daddy - Thank you for letting us all in to your life.<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-75495986208152844222013-05-20T09:09:34.499-07:002013-05-20T09:09:34.499-07:00I have a friend that was taught that sex is wrong....I have a friend that was taught that sex is wrong. It is to be endured. It is only for the sake of getting pregnant, so no birth control is ever needed. She was a virgin bride (not sure why her and fiance didn't discuss this). Good thing her husband was patient because it took a long time in therapy for her to understand and accept that it's ok to want, like, enjoy, crave sex. What a huge diservice her mom did for her.Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04798113123590131798noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-57193387527908326342013-05-20T08:58:36.215-07:002013-05-20T08:58:36.215-07:00I agree completely mouse. There is nothing like f...I agree completely mouse. There is nothing like feeling the weight and physical presence of Daddy. I hope that my dying request is the feel him one last time. I can't imagine going an entire decade without a sexual encounter. We too connect daily if not more often, sometimes for his pleasure (which gives me pleasure) or for mine as well. We wouldn't want it any other way<br /><br />Hugs<br />bgAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-64163538225943351502013-05-20T08:09:53.604-07:002013-05-20T08:09:53.604-07:00If this was written a couple of years ago or longe...If this was written a couple of years ago or longer my response would have been very different to what it is now. <br /><br />Its taken the bossman (and myself) a lot of 'work' to get me to see sex in a positive light, its probably only in the last year or so that i have felt comfortable initiating sex.<br /><br />I admit that given a choice between an s/m session or sex i will opt for the s/m everytime...and i suppose it could be said thats not healthy..i dont know...however we have sex more often than we engage in s/m.<br /><br />I enjoy sex now, and gosh yes its definitley better than the best vibrator out there, its that level of intimacy, exploring one another, i love that i can completely lose any sense of inhibitations and embrace it...which was something i really struggled with.<br /><br />x<br /><br />torihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06358391889176400481noreply@blogger.com