tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post9057457891652384591..comments2024-02-09T22:25:09.763-08:00Comments on The Power Exchange: This is going to sound weirdmousehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17837530120535693314noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-64755183995581410262010-07-13T21:43:27.654-07:002010-07-13T21:43:27.654-07:00nope I don't really understand this..but I do ...nope I don't really understand this..but I do think it has to do with pride ,.as greengirl mentioned.<br />Of course having other women to talk with would help..then again I have no experience with like minded real life women. <br />Good luck.<br /><br />At any rate.. you sound happy..that is what matters!nbshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12817508431335142670noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-35934731579938109952010-07-12T00:09:59.650-07:002010-07-12T00:09:59.650-07:00I don't think it sounds weird either. Asha can...I don't think it sounds weird either. Asha can be the same way and reason when you're feeling unreasonable can feel... well it can make you want to scream. But in retrospect it's always a good thing. I think it's more disturbing when the things that's holding me up also becomes unstable.<br /><br />*hugs*<br /><br />turiyaturiyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04611694817150215324noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-64337908563665717952010-07-09T13:16:28.429-07:002010-07-09T13:16:28.429-07:00Doesn't sound at all weird to me. When I'm...Doesn't sound at all weird to me. When I'm falling apart and he's staying strong it feels, in some way, as though that trivializes my reaction and makes it feel like I'm over-reacting. Not at all how it's meant, I know. Nor would I honestly like it any better if he was falling apart. Then I'd be secretly disdaining him for being a weenie. And I certainly don't want him to be a weenie -- but I don't like feeling like one myself, either.<br />So, see? Nothing weird at all about that. <br />Nope. <br />uh-uh.Jzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00301793291285112859noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-18189060329862529442010-07-09T13:10:05.475-07:002010-07-09T13:10:05.475-07:00I understand what you write about in this post. F...I understand what you write about in this post. For moments like this I find I need other women. Sometimes you just need to be able to whine and complain and have the other person get upset and whine and complain right back with you.Serenityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06885913777602699200noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-50627482433455999142010-07-09T11:51:14.339-07:002010-07-09T11:51:14.339-07:00Although you have that, let's call it, resentf...Although you have that, let's call it, resentful edge, overall the fact is you need Omega to steer you in the right direction. Accept the resentment as a necessary irritant. Can you imagine if you really had a partner who fell apart whenever you needed him to? Sounds like you'd have a big mess on your hands.<br /><br />Kudos to Omega.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1122051460450771848.post-8952499189998681912010-07-09T08:15:38.937-07:002010-07-09T08:15:38.937-07:00I find it very frustrating, what you describe. It&...I find it very frustrating, what you describe. It's one of those 'can't have it both ways' things. I need him to be my rock and not fall apart with me, but I hate that I fall apart and he doesn't. For me it's also tied up in my pride and not wanting to ask for help, or be unable to handle everything myself, or to really need him.<br /><br />On the other hand, in saner moments, I know it goes both ways. The form or appearance is different, but he relies on me in small and large ways too. <br /><br />I do hope you have a great weekend together.greengirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06897315716330033528noreply@blogger.com