Some people preface their questions with an explanation....the problem is the prefaced part is sent, but the questions never do -- it seems. Also, the box thingy on mouse's page doesn't tell you when you've gone over...so the person naturally feels their whole statement has been sent...
Today was such a day. The person asking said they had some questions and explained a bit of their background, but formspring cut them off...
Here is what they wrote or rather what mouse received...
hello mouse. I am new to your blog and am alien to this lifestyle. It seems fascinating. But I do have a few questions. I hope you do not mind me asking. Though I would not be able to deal with a total 24/7 M/s relationship I have always been sexually sub
They went on to say in a second formspring...
sorry I forgot to add..My husband is a wonderful man and he would do anything in his power to make me happy but he is not a sadist and I do not think he can quite bring himself to hurt me in any way. So this adds to my worry...
So, mouse really doesn't know how to reply...It does seem that the question relates to M/s lifestyle, which mouse and Daddy share.
Now mouse would also direct you to our FAQ page, if the questions or answers aren't found there please feel free to resubmit them.
Or perhaps you (the person who asked) will leave a comment?
Apologies tho for not being more helpful...formspring is kinda a pain at times...
And mouse did add a blurb about character limits...so hopefully...
Hello. I did not realise I had exceded the word limit. sorry. any way I will repost it.
ReplyDeletehello mouse. I am new to your blog and am alien to this lifestyle. It seems fascinating. But I do have a few questions. I hope you do not mind me asking. Though I would not be able to deal with a total 24/7 M/s relationship I have always been sexually submissive.As of now, my husbnad and I have vanilla sex. I would like to be dominated in bed but I do not want this to spill over to the other parts of our life as well. How do I tell him my desires? is it possible to draw a line and find a balance? How do I go about it?..
My husband is a wonderful man and he would do anything in his power to make me happy but he is not a sadist and I do not think he can quite bring himself to hurt me in any way. So this adds to my worry
This was my full post. any thoughts or suggestion would really be appreciated. And thank you for letting me know that you did not receive my full question. I would never have known otherwise and thank you for encouraging me to leave a comment. your blog is very helpful. You are a true inspiration. Thank you.
-PV
Yes the thing doesn't really tell you. Well being "kinky" "Dominated" in bed all fall under the heading "sexually adventurous" Make a few purchases and surprise him. Tell him you want to be tied up...tell him you've been reading about role play...Tell him that you've just made him a promise that you'll NEVER refuse him. But the big point is a whole lotta discussion.
DeleteTheres nothing wrong with just submitting in the bedroom, many woman do. Sometimes it's hard because because you start to crave it in other areas...or one of you does. It could be the first step to something really interesting for you both.
Good luck!
mouse
Omega and mouse,
DeleteThat bloody formspring character limit .... grrr ... I had the same problem today and lost half a question. Thank you so much for the brilliant idea of adding the 250 character limit to the formspring question box. I'm off to update mine :)
Ms160