Greetings from mouse,
We've had a lot of changes, and all of them good, exciting, and scary! The baby is doing really well, but this isn't about that. It's about us and all the changes. There's no bdsm stuff that goes on and yet, we're not your typical vanilla couple either. Sex is between us is never vanilla, but it is limited. The other evening Daddy was sitting on the sofa, mouse at his feet and we both fell asleep! It might have been in mid-sentence. Who knows!
Before falling asleep we had been talking about how well things have been for us for several months now. Do we have moments, yes, but overall -- very well. We're very in tune to each other.
Now if we weren't so damn tired, we'd probably enjoy it.
Still we're trying to find a balance in our life as it is now. With Daddy's help, mouse will get there!
Been considering merits of control. There's so much in life we don't have any control over. Children, family, friends, coworkers, aqaintences...add together weather, work, the house......
Over the passed week, mouse has realized that the only thing she can count on is Daddy's loving control...
Sometimes the control can be centering =)
ReplyDeleteMistress L,
DeleteCentering!!! That was the word mouse was trying to figure out....Daddy's loving control to center mouse. Wow thanks bunches...
Hugs,
mouse
I think the "loving" is the real center. Knowing that you are loved, however that love manifests itself, is what gives you purchase: a place to feel safe and protected and where you feel that life is, at least in this way, somewhere where you can feel control (and consequently feel in control).
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Lily
Very well said Lily! It's very true...
DeleteHugs,
mouse
This made me smile Mouse. I feel so contented at Henry's feet too - so relaxed and safe.
DeleteAnd finding balance is an on- going mission, isn't it? It can feel like following a moving target at times.
I'm so happy to hear you found some contentedness too, while you seek that balance. :)
Elysia,
DeleteYes, it's so very true and finding a balance is so difficult at times...but Daddy helps with that.
Hugs,
mouse
Life has so many facets, stages, and cycles. None of them lasts forever. It's to your and Omega's credit that you've built such a strong connection or foundation that you can maintain who you are together through it all. And yes- i think you are absolutely right - that loving control is the core, the foundation - not all the rest.
ReplyDeletegreengirl,
DeleteYes, and now that mouse is really considering it...that sense of loving control is the foundation of our relationship...how we live, love and how we entwined and connect ourselves...
Hugs,
mouse
Glad things are going good.
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