Consistency

Our next question comes from an anonymous reader who asked about Daddy:

From your blog your Master is very consistent. Is there times he isn't consistent and how does he stay consistent?

Daddy was curious about how mouse would answer this, since it pertained directly to him. As Master, HoH or just Daddy -- Omega rarely makes a rule he doesn't on some level care about. Some are harder to enforce and he realizes that, some of the mental expectations he has for mouse point to that.

Sometimes when real life gets too real, Daddy will "let go" or offer a "pass" on some things, but rarely every thing. The reason he can remain fairly consistent is because it's important to him. It doesn't need to be important to anyone else. He finds that a few Doms make the mistake of allowing their submissive to set the rules based on what they think other subs do, or what they think their Master would want (based on other Doms they might know). Then they lament that the rules aren't enforced in a meaningful way.

Daddy actually cares deeply that we live in a fairly tidy home. If he didn't care it would be far more difficult for him to enforce it. If he didn't care about how mouse dresses, he wouldn't pick out her clothing or undergarments. Sure, sometimes he will give a vague idea, "like wear a skirt and blouse" but he'll pick out the undergarments. His favorite thing is to have mouse dress very outwardly conservative. But underneath she's like a slut. He likes that, and has often said that many Doms miss out on that kind of fun.

But as he pointed out, the Dom has to really want a certain rule. Also they can change their minds (like everyone does on occasion). Daddy knows himself pretty well -- very self-aware about what he likes or doesn't like. He can handle it when mouse becomes a little snippy -- but he always makes a mental note. If her snippiness is because we're having a fun discussion -- he will probably overlook it. At least if his mood is generous. When she does become a careless with her words or worse her tone, it does get her into trouble.

Also, mouse isn't sure that if he routinely ignored his expectations, except when he became too annoyed by them, it would leave mouse feeling very unbalanced. How would she ever know she was doing anything wrong? Daddy's big on giving verbal and non-verbal clues -- like his famous eyebrow arch, or even feigned shock. Those let her know that he is keeping score, but even if she sees none of that, come Thursday she will be told in some detail all her infractions.