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Monday, July 5, 2010

And we're back

Thank you for your patience during my long absence.  It was a long difficult time but that's behind me now and I'm back.  I will be checking in on everyone's blogs and catching up (tho it might take me a few days to get to everyone's).  


Summer is in full swing, though I'd never know it by our weather and I should be used to it by now, and enjoying it because I know eventually the temps will shoot upward and I'll be whining that it's too hot to anything.  Yesterday was the 4th of July, which ironically or not is one of O's favorite holidays.  We had a house full of people and did the usual barbecue and fireworks.  Omega LOVES playing with fireworks and cracked me up several times especially when he lit one off kinda too close to his brother.  Of course the dog was totally freaked out so we medicated him heavily and I stayed with him while the firework action went on outside. 


It was really a lot of fun, despite having to spend a couple days cleaning the house up for it.  


In the evening I joined Omega in the hot-tub, and we just talked for a long time about everything that's been going on.  


I'm so grateful for all the comments, emails and everything sent to me during my time away.  I will be catching up soon on everyone's blogs!  Really I will.  I really can't say thank you to everyone enough.  


I also want to thank Omega for not holding on to me tighter during that time of awful stress but instead actually letting a lot of stuff go, so I could focus on what I needed to do.  Stress is the worst thing, and I think the knee jerk response is to tighten things up.   But O really did the opposite while my stress was unbearable.  He didn't care if the house was clean, or if the meals were perfect, he just let it slide.  He didn't worry about what he wanted, or even my maintenance which we just returned to doing recently. He helped me during that time and didn't get pouty or selfish.  It's really not easy being the one in charge for everything.  But I really think a hallmark of a good dom is knowing when to put things aside for the greater good.  


Thank you Omega for helping me through that time.  Being my flashlight in the darkness and never once complaining about dinner being late, the house being a mess, or saying you felt neglected.  You put up with me when I was at my craziest (well maybe not quite my craziest but you get the idea). 







20 comments:

  1. Welcome back guys! Glad things are back on track for you.
    -Rhia

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  2. Hey There Lady Friend :)
    Glad to you are back and better,,, been missing you,,,
    Huggs to you and the Big 'O' :)
    (See time and greater distance makes a gal reckless :))

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  3. I'm super happy that you're back ^_^ I missed you, or should I say, reading your thoughts.

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  4. YAY!
    mouse is back!
    whooo-hoooo!

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  5. Welcome back! You've been missed. I'm glad you had a great 4th. Brandon would've loved to go all crazy with blowing up fireworks but here in AZ we can't so we went and watched them instead (which was kinda a mistake with a 2month old baby, poor guy). Also, it is more than hot here so why don't you just take some of our heat and I'll take some of your cool weather. I'm looking forward to your posts again!

    Luv and Hugs!

    Alice

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  6. Back on track! :) missed ya! :)

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  7. mouse, I'm happy to see you back and glad the stressful time is behind you.

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  8. YAY!!! I am a recent follower and spent like two weeks reading your entire blog. I am so very glad you are back because you are a huge inspiration to me in so many ways. I can't wait to get to know more about you!!! Please feel free to check out my blog to learn all sorts of stuff about me!!!

    Again ... Welcome Back and I am glad things are better for you!!!

    *Hugs*
    Humbly His,
    Heaven

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  9. Welcome back Mouse. Glad to hear that everything is OK. Good to have you return to the blogging world.

    FD

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  10. were you gone?

    just kidding, welcome back.

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  11. Welcome back mouse! I missed you!

    Big Hugs,
    kitten

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  12. Welcome back. I missed you. And thanks for the counter. I counted the days with you and knew when to expect you back. Yay!
    Maryann

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  13. Mouse,
    I'm glad to hear you say things are going better for you.

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  14. WOO HOO! Missed ya! Welcome back!

    *big hugs*

    turiya

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  15. I am delighted you are back. I look forward to reading your words again.

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  16. Lovely to see you back Mouse.

    Love,
    Ronnie
    xx

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  17. I'm glad you're back and it sound like you've handled things well. :-)

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