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Thursday, October 14, 2010

Do you ever feel neglected by Omega? Like you need more snuggles and Omega is busy or just doesn't think of it...

That's a good question. While mouse isn't completely sure, but everyone must feel neglected at times. There are times where Omega does get busy with work, and yes sometimes he's kinda forgetful but never in a deliberate way. Mostly distracted and try as she might, mouse can't reach him when he gets like that.

Thankfully it never lasts long, maybe a week at the most, before he realizes it and makes things right. And to be fair there are times when mouse is very busy too and becomes a little neglectful (usually where housework is concerned) as well. It happens to everyone at times regardless of their dynamic.

Again thanks for the question.

Hugs,
mouse

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3 comments:

turiya said...

I think you're right. I think everyone gets this way at times. I think it's human nature to kinda turn inward and tune out the world around you... and it's probably needed for our sanity once in a while.

Men, especially, seem prone to this. I've always found it's better to give Asha space when he gets like this, but yeah... it can leave you feeling neglected a bit.

*hugs*

turiya

mouse said...

turiya...Yep and that's exactly what mouse does when O gets that way. When O gets really busy or overloaded with work stuff...then he starts getting grumpy or snappish and mouse just lets it go...but she has to admit sometimes it's not so easy.

Hugs,
mouse

turiya said...

No it's not easy at all, especially when you just want to "talk it out" and help them feel better, and there's really nothing you can do. Kinda leaves you feeling a bit helpless and well... kinda useless. But it's certainly better than the alternative (pissing them off).

*hugs*

turiya