Moving onto the next which will probably be very short.....
6) What do you feel are the roots of your submission? Do you think it has something to do with childhood? Is it a relationship management tool as in the practice of domestic discipline? Is it a sexual thrill or something else?
Honestly, this is a subject that comes up every so often and it's one that confounds mouse on many levels. As a child mouse mostly wanted to be pleasing. Our relationship today isn't about relationship management. It's more about how we both want to live. We talk about everything -- no subject is a taboo or wrong.
It totally is a sexual thrill but that's not the reason -- it's really at the core who we are and how it's expressed best. Daddy is very dominant -- it's his personality and is that way with everyone. And mouse is most agreeable with his personality. We're comparable in most ways.
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Compatibility is pretty important and one thinks that is why it works so well for you two and many others.
Two dominant personalities would just cause a lot of bickering and prevent the closeness we gain from this type of dynamic.
Two submissive personalties well one has to think about how that would work, at first thought it would seem not too much would get done but not sure if that is accurate. Something to think about for sure.
I confess i am awful for needing and searching for an explanation of why i am like i am, i think its part nature and nurture...although i was an awful bratty child growing up and spoilt rotten lol
Im not sure i get the part about this being a relationship management tool, is that implying ttwd is used to fix a relationship thats struggling? or to spice up a relationship?
The sexual thrill i get although yes like you said its much more than that, the root of submission? hmm im going to be dwelling on that.
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