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Wednesday, May 8, 2013

He'll be...Someone to Watch

Actually wasn't going to post today, but had the extra time.

Once a month, Daddy has this little pen-like thing to measure the air in mouse's tires. It probably has a technical name other than pen-like thing. Guess its important because the third week of each month, rain or shine he's checking it out. Daddy then pops the hood and checks stuff (really no clue what).

Daddy said its what you do to make sure things are well maintained. We discussed the word "maintenance" not only regarding to household chores and duties, but also on our relationship. Recently, with him being busy with work, it seems mouse was beginning to feel a tad pushed aside. Yes, there are, at times, other people or things that are more important. Our children, extended family, etc, all at times feel like we wait in line -- with mouse always it seems giving everyone cuts.

Now for those of you unfamiliar with the term "cuts" it means skipping ahead in line.

Last month Daddy mentiioned...well oh dear that's not right...see mouse had been reading a blog (possibly The Dish with Ward and June or another blog -- really not certain) where maintence spankings were mentioned. It's a topic that does come up...and one we've tried it in the past. Still, with Daddy's hectic schedule, kids and family it's really no wonder that mouse was feeling a bit pushed aside. His free time is limited and nothing EVER goes as planned!

So, Daddy said for the whole month of May, mouse will be getting spanked twice per day. Each morning and night. He wants mouse to be honest on how it effects her -- is the effect calming? After 30 days, we'll stop and see how mouse does without it. His reasons are simple, clear and honest.

  1. He loves a good experiment and knows women are individual. Some respond well to maintenance spankings, while others it doesn't matter.
  2. He wants to see if it helps even mouse out because he knows all too well a balanced mouse is a happy mouse.
  3. Let's face it, we also enjoy any excuse for the science that allows us playtime.
  4. One thing Daddy is curious to see if maintenance affects mouse so that *corrections or punishments occur with less frequency.
So far, mouse has really enjoyed the closeness with Daddy and its reminding her that she is important. Not that she needs a reminder of that really...deep down its there. Like the others things we do, Daddy choosing clothing, instructing mouse to wear the plug a few hours a day, all are reminders that she's owned. In fact inserting the plug after the spanking in the morning, mouse feels a new intensity to those 'owned' feelings.

*It should be mentioned harsh punishments are rare for us. But what Daddy refers as corrections do occur more often -- a strongly worded rebuke from him or a face slap are common ways he will get mouse's attention.

Song Selection: Someone to Watch Over Me

10 comments:

  1. I hope the spankings help you feel centered and loved.

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    1. So far it's been wonderful! Thanks Joey! Xxoo

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  2. I pledge I shall always check your tires. It is beyond vehicle maintenance, it is also for your safety. I will endeavor to protect you where I can. Thus far I am enjoying the maintenance spankings and have noted some changes in your behavior. It appears to have quieted your negative emotions.

    Regardless if this experiment renders positive or neutral my love for you grows and remains quite unconditional. I am pleased you journaled today.

    You serve me well.

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  3. Why did you stop the maintenence spankings before, if you dont mind me asking mouse?

    Its difficult i think sometimes to distinguish between punishments and being disciplined/corrected, i think or for us its punishments are given for blatant disobedience (when i really know better) and corrections are for behaviours he doesnt like, and wants to knock on the head...sort of a way of 'pulling me back into line' for want of a better phrase.

    I hope the maintenence works well for you both.

    x

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    1. Really...dunno why stopped. Shift in priorities? We just fell out of the habit maybe.

      Daddy tends to make sure that punishments feel different. Like with maintenance its usually with his hand. But yea...sometimes play can start to feel like punishment.

      Hugs!!!
      mouse

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  4. Now that some time has passed between us harsh punishments are definitely less frequent. Corrections are also less frequent when we make time for regular maintenance, we are both just happier and feel more connected to each other that way.

    We will be living together in just a few days (moving is stressful) and we hope to try a daily regimen once we are settled. Its something we are looking forward too.

    Hope to hear about how this goes as the month goes on.

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    1. This is what mouse hopes!

      Thanks for the encouragement!

      Hugs,
      mouse

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  5. My husband does this for me. For years I changed my own oil even - but he maintains the car for me now. He teases me about it - but takes the car and does it anyhow. It feels nice, cared for, and I think he likes teasing me. He also ran an experiment for a few months with daily caning. It was good - on a lot of levels, i liked the feelings it created in me, and between us. It was balancing. I have always wondered if that kind of thing is sustainable though. Do we end up needing more and more? Does it become too routine? Where do you go from there? It is nice to hear about how good it is making you feel.

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    1. You totally echoed mouse's thoughts. Will it become needed? Like a mental crutch? Will it become just same old...dunno.

      The car thing...well mouse can be a little dense when it comes to car stuff...

      It does make mouse feel cared for.

      Hugs,
      mouse

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