It's true over the past few months mouse has struggled a lot with her focus rules, but after several talks with Omega, and a well written letter to him on our private blog, mouse demonstrated that she was able to move on and on Saturday night Omega changed the focus rules. True one still remained, reminding mouse that she has no will of her own other than what Omega has already given her. It sounds really harsh and spanks of doormat, but mouse must remember that this doesn't really change anything. The mouse is still encouraged to speak her mind when appropriate. Omega will always ask mouse how she feels about different things.
The reality is that mouse has a lot of freedom, over the make-up she wears, or doesn't, the clothing she wears (as long the choice follows the clothing rules). So why say no will? Well, it seems that was kinda answered by the other rule that mouse is to be pierced soon. This is something that Omega has talked about for a long time and mouse has mostly listened. A hood piercing is out because it would need be a horizontal piercing due the shape of mouse's clitoral hood. While its kinda pleasing to look at, it really doesn't serve a big purpose. Vertical piercings, according to Omega provide the most stimulation, easier to care for, take less time to heal and less painful.
Now, Omega explained that a couple well placed rings at the very top of mouse's inner labia will provide sexual stimulation and press against the clitoral area. So, yesterday during the lunch hour, Omega had mouse meet him at a piercing place. The idea was just to talk about what would happen, pick jewelry and then come back. After picking out the rings, which were a whole lot thicker than she'd thought they'd be, thinner rings it seems tend to tear more. It was decided to just do it. Not one but four, two smallish captive rings, on each side. It didn't hurt all that much...it seemed the second round did hurt a little more than the first. They did one on each side first, guess to make sure they lined up right or something, then repeated. The waxing mouse had in preparation of this hurt a whole lot more! The person then spent a lot of time talking with O and mouse discussing how to keep the area clean, and no sex without a condom (or dental dam) for several weeks (5-6). There is a chance of rejection of the rings, which would prolong healing. The person doing them said allow around 6 weeks for them to heal. Not as bad as mouse thought.
Then the person delivering the piercings asked if there was anything else we wanted done. Oddly enough mouse spoke up about getting her nipples done...as long as we're here. For the nipples the piercing person recommended instead of rings, the barbell type, saying it's easier on healing, and can of course be easily changed to rings later. Also it doesn't show as much under clothing. We talked about the aftercare, such as wearing a bra, keeping the area clean, which was all very similar to the labia piercings, soaking in salt water. After those selections were made, it was done. As pain goes, it totally wasn't as bad as she thought it was going to be. It seems, mouse recalls, having her ears pierced hurt a lot more.
There was one tense (or intense) moment of pain, mouse was getting into her car and felt something pull and felt the blood drain from her face. Completely convinced she had ripped one clean off she ran back into the bathroom to check on it. No, all four right there and everything seemed fine...nothing hemorrhaging. All was good and mouse was much MORE careful getting in and out of the car after that!
The morning after, the labia doesn't really hurt at all, just a kinda throbbing sensation, but not really painful. Sure if mouse sits funky or something there are twinges but nothing huge. The nipples are very tender and constantly erect. The first time peeing after was kinda stingy, but rinsing it with cool water helped a lot. So, far the cleaning of the rings isn't such a big deal, tho wearing panties is kinda a pain. Gotta clean everything thoroughly after exercising or sweating, because that help bacteria to grow. Excess moisture is evil. For now mouse is using some panty liners also because they ooze slightly. Omega's been checking everything and said it all looks normal...
We'll wait and see how it goes, mouse had bad issues with getting her ears pierced decades ago, and isn't sure if she'll have a similar problem with these. Time will tell!