Hi mouse. Am catching up on reading, it looks like you're in a much deeper submission then last year at this time . Can you recommend some posts you have written that show where these changes occurred? For example when did you start calling Omega Daddy?
Thanks for the question! Yes, there have been lot of changes this past year. Tho, it's super difficult to pick out posts that might be important, the one about why mouse started calling O, Daddy can be found here. Honestly the changes probably started since the beginning but they've been mostly slow. We started melding better over this last year and have only been going stronger. :-)
Thanks for the wonderful question!
*note* The next several questions seem to related and from the same person since they were sent at the same time or within minutes of each other.
sorry but this might sound silly .but my excuse is that I am an outsider to this life style and am trying to understand this better..does living this dynamic mean you do all the domestic chores and he does not chip in?..
Interesting question and thanks for taking the time to ask. Daddy does do some things around here, so can't really say that all the domestic chores fall on mouse. Guess it's easiest said that we each have our responsibilities. Yes, mouse's do involve household chores and shopping, errands...after all right now especially she's off work until January and works mostly from home (tho that might be changing again next year) it makes sense that things are the way they are. The vibe of the questions that followed seem to be kinda confrontational.
is your husband power hungry?
Daddy does enjoy being in control and mouse enjoys his control. Wouldn't really call him power hungry because there are things that are well out of his control and he doesn't really want it either.
controlling you in every possible way...does this not get tiering for him?
No, mouse doesn't think so.
do you have kids?..do they know you two live this life style?..if they ask you why you do everything for daddy what would be your explaination to them?...they may learn wrong leassons by observing the two of you dont you think?
No it is not shared with family. If they (family), or anyone, were to ask why mouse does everything for Daddy, she would simply say because she loves him and doing things for him makes her happy, which makes him happy...it's like a circle of happiness. Cue the Disney music ;-)
As a side note, that's what people do when they love each other...they do things for EACH other. Maybe it's just the way you worded the question. But there's an implication that somehow it's wrong to demonstrate love and respect.
Believe it or not, this doesn't mean that mouse is a doormat or just rolls over. But it does mean that mouse remains respectful, and that Daddy doesn't aways get his way or is automatically right just because he's the Master. Omega (Daddy, Master) is Dominant, not domineering. There is a big difference.
So, while mouse isn't sure if these questions were serious (first question aside) or if they were meant to be snarky, at least she knows the answers were honest.