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Monday, June 3, 2013

More Thoughts on Spanking

Last Thursday mouse posted about her "Thoughts on Spanking" and it led to some varied and interesting comments from readers (these people aren't just "readers" they're actually blog friends).  The comments gave mouse a way to frame her fears and bring them to Daddy in a way that made sense to him.  

It has become very much a ritual mouse enjoys and it's "our time" and while mouse isn't sure that it would continue to thwart bad behavior it does give us an opportunity for intimacy and closeness that we, at times desperately need.  Childrearing in a Master/slave dynamic isn't really any different than vanilla childrearing.  When the kids are little mouse has learned it's much easier to steal away time.   Older kids are much more tricky to deal with.  They can read, they find stuff and actually can understand what it is or what it could be used for.   A baby seeing a vibe in a drawer, isn't the same as a 13 year old finding one.   The 13 year old doesn't care or even want to know any details, cause that's just gross.  But still they're aware or more aware.

So for a few minutes a couple times a day we do something that allows us to forget that we're parents with tons of responsibilities.  We just get to be Daddy and mouse.

There are mornings we hardly speak to each other.  Much like this morning, mouse woke hideously early (we'd left a window open and birds were chirping loudly in a tree by the window).  Daylight was already pouring into the room.  After spending a few minutes trying to fall back asleep, mouse decided to just get up and go to the gym.

Quiet time for mouse is rare around here and it was kinda nice....

The gym was practically empty.  After the workout mouse quickly headed home, ran upstairs and showered.  While she was drying her hair, Daddy came into the bathroom.  We didn't speak to each other.  He showered and mouse threw a towel in the dryer for him.

He likes a warm towel and admits he's thoroughly spoiled by mouse doing this.  Before leaving to make breakfast, she arranged his shaving things also.

After breakfast, he told mouse to meet him upstairs.  He was seated on chaise lounge holding the flat paddled hairbrush and looked at mouse.  He told her to lift her skirt and bend over his knee.

Beginning with his hand he warmed mouse's bottom nicely -- then he used the brush.  The thuddy sting made mouse cry a little.

Normally, in the morning mouse would wake Daddy with her mouth...yanno oral?

That morning, mouse had broken routine...

So after she was blissfuly contented by the thorough spanking, mouse settled on her knees and Daddy allowed mouse to suck him.

It was intimate and overwhelming to mouse to share this...to be part of it all with him.   The need, the burning desire to serve and please was so very strong.

This is part of what the daily spanking does for mouse or what she gets out of it.

Last week, we discussed before June 1, if the spankings would end and he remarked that he's enjoyed the intimacy it's fostered between us.  It wasn't for him, something he thoroughly anticipated because it wasn't what happened before -- earlier in our dynamic.  We talked about the pros and cons, but he really seemed keen to continue with the experiment.

Saturday morning mouse fully anticipated to be spank free.

Daddy changed his mind.

Thank you Daddy for continuing the ritual.  You give mouse so much and it makes her want to give more to you.

That's the point of a power exchange.  

20 comments:

  1. That is the point indeed and it is oh so rewarding. So happy to see your Daddy made this decision. This works for us as well and not having that time each day even for something fast and furious would just leave an unsettled feeling that's never good.

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  2. I enjoy it as much as you, how on earth could we just end such a good thing?

    O

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  3. I was wondering how you were dealing with not having the spankings and the closeness that comes from it last night. i'm really happy for you both. :)

    jade
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    1. The closeness they fostered and continue to foster is the reason they stayed mouse thinks now...moreso than other reasons.

      Hugs,
      mouse

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  4. I knew Omega would make a decision that benefited the both of you. Deep inside,I hoped he would continue the spankings. I am glad that you are continuing. You are both very lucky.

    Hug,
    joey

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    1. Yep Joey...mouse certainly is lucky!

      Hugs,
      mouse

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  5. Yay pleased for you its staying as its working so well.

    Definitley im finding as the children are older we are having to be more careful with what they pick up on, and sometimes it seems (other than bedtime) we dont get 10 mins alone in a day.

    x





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    1. It's waaaaaaay harder...Especially now with school being out...ugh....

      Somehow we make it work -- tho sometimes its just barely possible.

      Hugs,
      mouse

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  6. That connection makes all the difference. And it is harder to work in with older kids, I'm happy to hear you are making it work.

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    1. Thanks greengirl and yes the connection we feel is incredibly strong and that's really nice.

      hugs,
      mouse

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  7. This is really awesome to hear mouse! There was no doubt that your Daddy would do what was best for the two of you. Good for you voicing your concerns to him.

    We have kids in the house ranging in ages 7-15. It has its challenges to say the least. Intimate time with Daddy is something to be treasured. I have recently begun getting up with him before he goes off to work...4:30am! Man that comes so early! lol But I have loved the time it allows us.

    hugs
    bg

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    1. thanks bg! It's the little things we do...to carve out special time to share...


      Hugs,
      mouse

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  8. Hope all is well mouse.

    hugs,

    -Emi

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  9. I would die without the intimacy of spankings....and the "thuddy" ones are the best...they get to your soul lol

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    1. That's kinda the way mouse feels now.

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  10. This sounds very "connecting" and lovely and very dominant from him. So nice!

    -sin

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