More Thoughts on Spanking

Last Thursday mouse posted about her "Thoughts on Spanking" and it led to some varied and interesting comments from readers (these people aren't just "readers" they're actually blog friends).  The comments gave mouse a way to frame her fears and bring them to Daddy in a way that made sense to him.  

It has become very much a ritual mouse enjoys and it's "our time" and while mouse isn't sure that it would continue to thwart bad behavior it does give us an opportunity for intimacy and closeness that we, at times desperately need.  Childrearing in a Master/slave dynamic isn't really any different than vanilla childrearing.  When the kids are little mouse has learned it's much easier to steal away time.   Older kids are much more tricky to deal with.  They can read, they find stuff and actually can understand what it is or what it could be used for.   A baby seeing a vibe in a drawer, isn't the same as a 13 year old finding one.   The 13 year old doesn't care or even want to know any details, cause that's just gross.  But still they're aware or more aware.

So for a few minutes a couple times a day we do something that allows us to forget that we're parents with tons of responsibilities.  We just get to be Daddy and mouse.

There are mornings we hardly speak to each other.  Much like this morning, mouse woke hideously early (we'd left a window open and birds were chirping loudly in a tree by the window).  Daylight was already pouring into the room.  After spending a few minutes trying to fall back asleep, mouse decided to just get up and go to the gym.

Quiet time for mouse is rare around here and it was kinda nice....

The gym was practically empty.  After the workout mouse quickly headed home, ran upstairs and showered.  While she was drying her hair, Daddy came into the bathroom.  We didn't speak to each other.  He showered and mouse threw a towel in the dryer for him.

He likes a warm towel and admits he's thoroughly spoiled by mouse doing this.  Before leaving to make breakfast, she arranged his shaving things also.

After breakfast, he told mouse to meet him upstairs.  He was seated on chaise lounge holding the flat paddled hairbrush and looked at mouse.  He told her to lift her skirt and bend over his knee.

Beginning with his hand he warmed mouse's bottom nicely -- then he used the brush.  The thuddy sting made mouse cry a little.

Normally, in the morning mouse would wake Daddy with her mouth...yanno oral?

That morning, mouse had broken routine...

So after she was blissfuly contented by the thorough spanking, mouse settled on her knees and Daddy allowed mouse to suck him.

It was intimate and overwhelming to mouse to share this...to be part of it all with him.   The need, the burning desire to serve and please was so very strong.

This is part of what the daily spanking does for mouse or what she gets out of it.

Last week, we discussed before June 1, if the spankings would end and he remarked that he's enjoyed the intimacy it's fostered between us.  It wasn't for him, something he thoroughly anticipated because it wasn't what happened before -- earlier in our dynamic.  We talked about the pros and cons, but he really seemed keen to continue with the experiment.

Saturday morning mouse fully anticipated to be spank free.

Daddy changed his mind.

Thank you Daddy for continuing the ritual.  You give mouse so much and it makes her want to give more to you.

That's the point of a power exchange.