Recently, mouse wrote about our relationship, and oddly mouse began to feel uncomfortable. Daddy asked mouse to expand a little on these thoughts. Tori asked if negative comments were often a bother. It all seems to be tied together. Truthfully, no, negative comments aren't really an issue since early on this year. It's just something that sticks in the back of mouse's mind.
Maybe it's just this need to make excuses so that people (anyone who happens to read on a whim) knows that our relationship is healthy and just different from maybe the way "vanilla" relationships are. Daddy doesn't dominate mouse because he hates women or because he's just a control freak. He doesn't abuse mouse in any way. The only thing infuriating about him is that he's so freaking calm. He rarely yells...and sometimes it's annoying.
Sex and playing, while important to any relationship, isn't the most important thing. Really! Neither is spanking or BDSM, those things are like frosting, rich, gooey and fun...but if the cake under it all sucks...it doesn't matter. We are like great cake.
Now -- if you'll excise mouse -- she's going to go bake a cake.