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Monday, September 16, 2013

Just Name it and it's Yours

Before mouse wanders too far into this topic, provided to mouse by Daddy, just wanted to take a moment to thank everyone for all the comments of support! Will be replying individually but just needed to give a collective shoulder bump to all. The support meant so much to mouse -- more than her words can express right now.

The thought of rituals and protocols excite mouse there are things that mouse always does and sometimes they're done without thinking, while others are hugely mindful. These rituals were probably mostly developed by mouse that rest within the rules established by Daddy.

Ok -- the biggest rule is just obey. But there are a few sub-rules.

Each morning (when possible) mouse wakes Daddy with oral. Yes, we still do that. It requires mouse to move slowly, nudge him with her head (hands aren't allowed) face, or nose even...whatever it takes to get access. Sometimes he stops her and we have sex, or he'll let her finish...rarely he refuses. If we're running late, it'll be a quickie.

While he showers, mouse warms his towel and arranges his shaving stuff. Including a hand towel.. Then mouse heads downstairs to make his breakfast. Well, she makes breakfast for everyone. When he comes into the breakfast room the table is set (it's a cheat and set the night before), and serves him coffee. He enjoys a small splash of cream in his coffee. It's stirred by mouse three times and handed to him.

The coffee is always served to him that way. Even if we're in a restaurant. For just the first cup -- after that he's on his own.

The evening after Daddy is home from work, mouse always meets him at the door -- unless she can't leave the stove -- and takes his briefcase and coat, and hands him a drink (usually he prefers an iced tea unless his day's been miserable). When he's settled in his chair, mouse brings him something to nibble if he chooses. Always, she kneels before him and takes off his shoes.

For the maintenance ritual, mouse always asks for it and thanks him afterward. Thanking him before and after are really the important parts for mouse. The after is always tearful, and ends with mouse kissing his fingers. Whatever he uses or does during those now precious sessions is always something for mouse to be thankful of. Displaying openly that gratitude is big part.

 

10 comments:

  1. Mouse,

    I love, love the connection the two of you have, it is rare to see both a spiritual and physical connection similar to yours. By spiritual, I mean that your emotional desires are in sync with each other.

    Hug,
    Joey

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  2. Mouse, I'm just curious - are these rituals things that Daddy has asked for/requires? The oral awakening for example. Or are they things you like to do for Him, He's happy for you to do them, so it's developed?

    I ask because we tend to land in the second camp, things have developed mostly (not all, but..) from me wanting to do them and husband accepting them, which initially bothered me but now really doesn't, but I was just curious how it was for you guys...

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    1. Some of them, are just things mouse finds natural to do...like thanking him after maintenance.

      The oral in the morning started because originally as a distraction...from mouse's past issues....

      It stayed because it put him in a sunny mood ;) It's really not required...it just became our thing...yanno??

      Hugs,
      mouse

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  3. Reading about your mornings makes me feel kind of guilty because for us as im a miserable bitch first thing, he gets up really early, makes tea and brings a cup up for me..if im really lucky breakfast as well....he does the kids breakfast!

    they are all happy talkative morning people....im not lol

    But he is happy with that, he prefers it so i suppose really i shouldnt feel bad about it if its what he wants.

    Have many of your rituals been in place from the beginning? do you still do them (the ones that can be done alone) when Omega is away?

    x

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    1. There are a few mouse can do when he's not here. Mentally thinking about the day..stuff like that. Anything that involves him or touching toys...

      Well, over the summer he did leave a plug for mouse to use that she was allowed to touch.

      Daddy's mentioned adding some rituals that don't involve him at all...but we don't know yet.

      Hugs,
      mouse

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  4. I do love reading about the dynamic that you and Omega have, and how you make the rituals such an integral part of your day. You really are quite inspiring:-) I am curious about the question that mamacrow had though, did you start doing that or was it something that Omega wanted?

    Ren

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    1. He likes it when mouse would just do things for him...when they became rituals...

      Dunno, they really just happened. Daddy said one thing when he read your comment...rituals are far easier to maintain when they evolve naturally.

      Hugs,
      mouse

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  5. Sounds so dreamy, like a fairy tale :)

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