Daddy doesn't censor mouse often, he doesn't often say to her that she shouldn't post something because it might invite trouble or people might misunderstand. He will often tell mouse words are an inadequate way of communicating. He didn't tell mouse not to publish the last post, he suggested she wait and mouse did wait a few hours and published it.
Now that annoyed Daddy because he feels he was clear that mouse should wait. We disagree on that point. Daddy put mouse on a time out of sorts for her to think. He could stand her in a corner all day and it won't change her perspective or belief his words were only a suggestion, not an order.
Daddy did make one point, we shouldn't shy away from controversial subjects. Open displays of submission in public areas are always a bit tricky to deal with. Daddy said we must be prepared to steel ourselves so that little things don't bother. Open displays of submission are entirely an appropriate topic on a blog discussing openly a power exchange dynamic. So, what was the problem? Sincerely mouse wanted to know.
The issue to him wasn't what the women had said, but mouse's response to give up more control, via the passwords, etc, to prove to them or herself that her trust and maybe her submission was genuine. He did keep the list by the way. He said he'll decide but he first wants mouse to seriously consider her reasons for it. Is what she wants and feels compelled to do, or is it just simply for show? Has she backed herself into a corner? The biggest thing to him was why now? Why was this bothering mouse so much? Then he read her reply to Goodgirl, who asked the same thing and held mouse for a long time.
When mouse just blurted out what her issue was with the past (yet again) she feels like she's failed again. Where were all those caring people when she went to work with a black eye and covered in bruises?
But now...when she's in the best most healthiest relationship she's ever had -- now people think she's being abused? That's really what's so fucked up.
Daddy said he's going to give mouse time take it back, after that time passes, it's up to him.
It's a lot to consider.
Song Selection: Season of the Witch; Donovan