Day 9

9) Do you accept and/or expect structure, rules and limits as a part of your submission? How do you feel about them?

Oh yes! In fact when there is a lack of overall structure, for mouse, submission becomes more difficult. The main rule is just to obey Daddy. We used to have many rules, but most of them -- once mouse grew accustomed to them, were replaced with just obey. Really it comes from understanding what is expected and what won't be tolerated. But also we've been at this for a long time.

Limits? There are things Daddy isn't into or lines he wouldn't cross, but really he's the holder of limits. -- whatever he's comfortable with doing, mouse is comfortable with. So when mouse says she has no "limits" as Daddy's slave, what she means is that she is bound by his limits. He wouldn't dream of putting mouse into danger -- physically or mentally. That's also why he stopped most BDSM play -- and very hard play became a limit for him -- thereby making it a default limit of mouse's.

As far as how she feels about those limits and rules, she trusts that he knows best for himself and by default for mouse, so she's grateful for everything he does.